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Bi-Monthly By Ryan #3
A twice-monthly newsletter by Ryan Jafar Artes
Dear Friends,
My last two weeks have been full. I hosted an artist talk on May 14, and not only attended but also spoke at a memorial service and a bench dedication. To unwind and come back to myself after the emotional intensity of everything, I focused my energy into working on the fourth issue of my zine, Friendship Zine.
On Tuesday, May 14, I facilitated the Artist Talk for Love Letters to Baltimore + the DMV, which I hosted as I would an in-person open mic session. I framed the conversation around the act of writing a letter, starting with an explanation of some of my current letter writing practices, after which I encouraged participating artists to speak about their work as it relates to the act of a letter, or however they pleased. The result was a fascinating and insightful conversation after which I shared the copious notes I took while each artist was speaking, immediately reflecting each of the artist's words back to themselves and everyone else present, which gave the event such depth and meaning.
On Saturday, May 18, I attended my grandmother Patricia Woods Thomson's memorial service, where I shared a reflection and remembrance written in the form of a letter to her. As has become my new mourning ritual, I wrote a letter to her everyday of the week leading up to her funeral, sharing the letter I wrote on the morning before her service, which garnered many laughs as I was hoping it might. I was honored for the opportunity to share glimpses into our private conversation, and to be fortunate enough to have developed such a close friendship with Pat as an adult.
The very next day, I attended a bench dedication for Darcy Elaine Richie at the Greenfield Intercultural Center (GIC) at the University of Pennsylvania, where I shared a letter I wrote to Darcy two years ago, during the week leading up to her memorial service. Again, I was honored for the opportunity to reflect on our friendship, and in particular Darcy's laughter and advocacy, from which I learned so much, and after which I have modeled my own life and work. My return to the GIC was deeply inspirational, and was full of reminders of my past activism while also inspiring my future movements.
I have spent the days since returning to myself, by way of relaxation and writing, as I do. I excitedly worked on the 4th issue of Friendship Zine, which features the letters I wrote to Darcy, photos from our time together at Penn, and original artwork by me. I am also reworking the third issue of Friendship Zine, which has been pushed aside for 3 years now, as I have been so fully focused on and immersed in my self-designed and implemented DIY MFA program.
Love Letters to Baltimore + the DMV is on display at the galleries at 16 West North Avenue and Motor House in Baltimore, MD until June 1, 2024. On May 29, I will be hosting a Guided Writing Workshop and Open Mic in the gallery space at 16 West North Avenue starting at 7pm. I hope you will join me!
Love, Ryan <3